The worse thing for any relationship is idle time even if you are vehmently disagreeing right now, so what, hear me out. That person you like to "do nothing" with might not like doing nothing with you, and might prefer something or consider your nothing something.
If the prophet is really the mouthpiece of God then even God has said that we ought to fill our time with recreational activities.
And your marriage must endure a long time, and in my experience, the best way to endearing a person to you to make them invaluable is a matter of creating memories. Do you really want to be remembered doing nothing?
Even the deepest infatuation will wane over time if not nurtured. My son has an inkling of this and so he tries to mend any bad feeling the instant it arises.
I have also noticed that too much time to consider anything changes it. So, it would be best to stay active and not allow such time as is required to reconsider a choice once it was made.
My final assertion is that those who I spend the most time with I grow to love the most. And even when I am not with everything reminds me of them. It is a cycle that we wish to spend our time with those we love, and we love those we spend our time with.
It seems like time is the universal currency.
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